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Lawrenceville Parent Arrested at Grayson Elementary School

The mother of a student from Starling Elementary School in Grayson was arrested Wednesday and charged with disruption of a public school and obstruction of a law enforcement officer.

 

A Lawrenceville parent from Starling Elementary School in Grayson was arrested this morning and charged with disruption of a public school, obstruction of a law enforcement officer and remaining on school property without probable cause.

According to jail records, Patricia Swilley of 835 Buie Way, Lawrenceville, was arrested at the school and booked into the Gwinnett County Detention Center at 10:34 a.m. this morning. She bonded out at 2:40 p.m. on a total bond of $8,300 - $1,300 on each of the charges relating to the school and $5,700 for obstruction of a law enforcement officer.

According to a report on CBS Atlanta News, Gwinnett County Public School officials said Swilley, who allegedly has a history of disrupting the school and not following school rules, was recently issued a criminal trespass warning banning her from the campus. She allegedly refused to leave the building after entering to take pictures of her daughter participating in field day activities. According to the report, Swilley's husband told CBS Atlanta News his wife is the yearbook photographer, which is why she was at the school.

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Amberr Meadows

7:47 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

There's more story there. Something doesn't make sense.

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Mary

11:45 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Yes there's more to this Story!!

Raven Nichols

8:40 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

I agree with Amberr. There has to be more to that story. My son will be in Kindergarten at Starling in August. Maybe I should give 'em a call. Looks like they'll need a new yearbook photographer...

Oh, that was bad. Sorry.

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clara J windham

9:03 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

I agree with u miss meadows, I think hold story is not being told ,a public school cannot ban a parent away from a school that have children that young ,unless she has cause danger to the school or the kids. It does not make sense ........I have never here of anything like this , it the end of the school year . It should be a happy and joyest of the year not this .The school and gwinnett county should have handle the situation a better way. The children are too young to see this, and then air all over the even new. sad''''''''''sad''''''''

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Lee

9:15 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

School officials asked the parent to leave- she could have and should have. I have never heard of a criminal trespassing charge being filed against a parent so clearly school officials felt that either students or faculty were endangered. Surely this mom expects her kid to follow the rules, at least the ones the mom feels are important. Be mad at the mom who behaved in such a fashion that she had to be controlled my police officers in front of her daughter and her daughter's peers!

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Jeff

7:36 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

@Clara What right do you have to voice such an opinion? What gives you the right to say how the school or the police should have handled this? Are you a police officer? Are you a teacher? Are you in any way connected to the school system or law enforcement, because I'm pretty sure you were NOT there to witness what happened. And, by the content of your remarks and the grammar you used, I'm pretty sure you don't have a HS diploma or a GED. If you do, you meed to get a refund!

Lee

9:09 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

There is MOST definitely more to the story! The yearbook has already been issued for the year. (All parents are "yearbook photographers"- anyone can turn in his or her pics.) It's as simple as she broke the law and can't accept the punishment. I would be far more angry if a parent who had been issued criminal trespassing charges was NOT arrested. She could have left when she was asked politely (even though she was aware that she was there inappropriately) and did not. Starling is an awesome school! Be very glad your child will attend there! I am still not certain what socialism and communism have to do with breaking rules and receiving consequences- something any dedicated stay-at-home mom for 12 years should understand!

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Raven Nichols

9:25 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

I have been very impressed with the administration and staff at Starling, and I feel confident that the matter was handled appropriately. When I was volunteering at my daughter's elementary school, I saw behavior from parents there that would shock your socks off, so I don't have any trouble imagining how things could escalate to a point where a criminal trespassing charge was filed. I feel really sad for this woman's child. What a terrible way to end her school year!

In case it didn't come across clearly, my comment about the yearbook photography was tongue in cheek. I hope we hear more about this case soon... it's definitely intriguing!

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Raven Nichols

9:28 pm on Wednesday, May 25, 2011

"I am still not certain what socialism and communism have to do with breaking rules and receiving consequences- something any dedicated stay-at-home mom for 12 years should understand!"--

Lee, do you have info we don't have? Please share!

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Lee

7:31 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

I thought your yearbook comment was funny!! :-)

The story was on CBS news and the Fox website, as well. Her claim is that she is just a poor woman who done nothing less that admirable. I just have no patience for people who pick and choose which rules apply to them and then act surprised and victimized when the same consequences given to all are given to them. My son is a K at Starling and I get madder and madder when I think about the ruckus that he very well could have witnessed and would have then dominated our dinner and bedtime conversations as I try to explain it all to him.

I also charge anyone to remember a time when a local news station came into a school and painted the school as acting appropriately.

Whew!

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momof3atStarling

10:46 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Exactly, since we live in a Republic. I was VERY proud when I asked my STARLING educated 1st grader "Do we live in a Democracy or a Republic?" She quickly responded with Republic. Thankfully, our school IS still goverened by a set of rules and guidelines. Otherwise it would an out of control, chaotic enviornment that would not be safe or condusive for educating children. Kids go to school to learn. I'm sorry this woman feels the need to be with her children at all hours of the day. Perhaps she should consider homeschooling?

Volunteer

8:07 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Starling has more than just cause to issue a trespass warning to Mrs. Swilley. It is unfortunate and something that I know the administration did not consider lightly, but it is forth safety of our children. She has been given more than ample opportunity to show that she is willing to comply with school rules and she simply chooses to ignore them. Not only that, she verbally assaults the school staff in front of other parents and students when she doesn't agree with anything she's being told. I am at the school on a daily basis as a volunteer and have had the misfortune of witnessing MANY of her daily episodes. In a time when school budgets are being cut more than ever, our admin does not need to focus their energy on non-compliant parents. We all have to follow the rules. This is the SAME parent who wanted to nominate herself to be in charge of your PTA funds. Then contested the results of the election and wanted a recount of that election which was 77/14. She has her own agenda and you bet there is MORE to the story! Lee is right on!! I just had to shake my head when she commented on the "communist, socialist county." I don't even know how to respond to that appropriately... The real losers here are her children. Surprisingly, they are very well adjusted, polite, respectful children despite the behavior of their mother. The good thing is that kids are resilient and they will bounce back and get past this. And so will STARLING!

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yohaun

11:10 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Ok, so she broke a rule. The point is being missed. This woman was severely beaten just to get her off property. It doesn't take that much force to bring down anyone with proper training. This is just more evidence of improper reactions to situations that could have been resolved differently by authorities. I just saw police toss a man from a wheel chair and beat him up to arrest him. Come on people. Blame the parent for not leaving. The rest is excessive force. My A+ son was punished for talking, but he was punished in two classes because the teacher taught the another of his classes. Because he said it wasn't fair he had next morning detention. We could have argued about it but I am 6'4" and an intimidating figure. The last thing I need is for someone to hint of aggression. In this society of bravado, I couldn't swear on a stack of bibles and get any one of you to believe that I was wronged by authorities if something like this happened to me. If you weren't there even if you work there and didn't see it, stop commenting on it with judgment. It was a couple of men beating up a woman. Authority or not. It should be unacceptable.

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Raven Nichols

11:55 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

She didn't just break a rule. She broke many rules, repeatedly. Then she ignored a criminal trespass warrant. It is clearly stated in the written documentation of a criminal trespass warrant that a person commits an offense if he or she enters or remains on property or in a building of another
without effective consent. When she entered the school grounds, she broke a law. She was given a chance to leave without involving the police, and she refused to leave. So the officers were called, and she resisted arrest. These are all documented facts.

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Jeff

7:46 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

And, of course, you were right there the entire time and you saw everything that happened, right? Right? I think not...Nor do I think you have any "law enforcement" defensive tactics training or handcuffing training. I have absulote faith in the police officers that she was asked very politely to leave, probably several times, refused and at that point they had to lay hands on her to arrest her. No doubt, she resisted and put up a good fight, therefore, she got injured as I'm sure the officer did.

Raven Nichols

11:48 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

From the information provided in an AJC article yesterday it appears that she has entered the school several times without signing in and has been told repeatedly that entering the building without signing in is against the rules. When school staff addressed this issue with her, she was allegedly verbally abusive to the staff. Those rules are in place to protect our children, and she repeatedly ignored those rules.

After the school issued a criminal trespass warrant, she entered school grounds anyway. She blatantly ignored a legal document forbidding her from entering the school. The principal asked her to leave. She would not. The police were called, and she resisted arrest and engaged in a physical scuffle with the officers.

So- a breakdown of things we know from various reputable sources:

1. Ms. Swilley broke school rules repeatedly. 2. Was issued a criminal trespass warrant, forbidding her to enter school property. 3. Ignored a legally binding warrant and entered school property anyway. 4. Refused to leave the school property when confronted civilly. 5. Resisted arrest.

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Raven Nichols

11:50 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

At what point does this become unfair to this woman? It sounds to me like she was given many chances to do the right thing. Regardless of gender or race, you've got to know that disregarding a legal trespass warrant is going to land you in trouble with the police. And then she refused to leave peaceably and resisted arrest. All of this IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN.

Also, being a PTA volunteer and a stay-at-home mom doesn't give her a license to break school rules. I'm also a PTA volunteer and a stay-at-home mom, and I would expect the same treatment as Ms. Swilley was given if I conducted myself the way she has.

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Volunteer

5:44 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Just to clarify...She is NOT a PTA volunteer or Room Paretn. Our yearbook was distributed on Monday and the pages were "locked' in March so there would be no reason to take yearbook pictures at Field Day. She had no PTA related purpose to be on the school campus Thursday or any other day this year.

Mary

11:59 am on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Trust me Raven, it's more to this story!! I know this person. Donna Ledford is A Bully!! And that's a fact! I pulled my daughter from this school. Donna Ledford writes her owe rules and the Board of Education lets' her get away with it.. Period. You can not just walk into Starling without Signing in, my child went to this school. Parents need to just take notice and become more involved in the community. Why would a Principal be transferred around to 5 different school within the past 10 years? This is the issue..
http://bullyingwithinthepublicschools.blogspot.com/

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momof3atStarling

10:58 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Actually Mary, the FACTS are that Donna Ledford has been the Principal at only three schools in the past 10 years. The first one was a PROMOTION to principal. The second was at her request, and the most recent one to Starling was to OPEN A NEW SCHOOL - which is a HUGE HONOR. I'm sure the county can verify that for you if you'd like to call and check the record before you continue with your misinformation. As to the fast that you "can not just walk into Starling without Signing in," ...Well that is true. However, this is a county-wide rule at every school. There is a SIGN on the front door stating that you MUST sign in. This is for the safety of our children. I would be CONCERNED if my school DID NOT require sign in. I WANT my school to know who is in the building. Why did this parent have a problem signing in? It only takes seconds... It's on a computer in the lobby. There is RARELY a line. Hmmmm....?

Sub Lady

1:07 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

I'm not really sure what your problem is Mary, but obviously you are of the mind that parents should be allowed to call the shots in the schools. I am very involved as a parent, volunteer, and sub teacher in the Gwinnett schools and I can tell you that they would NEVER issue a criminal trespass unless the parent had done something to make the school feel the need to protect the children by keeping her out! It is documented that she has bullied and threatened staff members herself...she causes constant disruption and problems that prevent the teachers from teaching. If I had a student there that was affected by this woman's antics, I would be FURIOUS if the school allowed it to happen without consequences. What a horrible example she is setting for her own children! I don't care who you are, how much money you have, or how "special" you think you and your kids are....EVERYONE MUST FOLLOW ALL THE SCHOOL RULES!!! This is what is wrong with the kids now...many are brought up to believe they are so special and do not have to follow the same rules as everyone else. It is such a shame that her kids are having to go through this...I feel quite sorry for them because they will be the ones hurt by this and they will be the ones that everyone talks about their mom and what happened.....is that fair to them?????

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SD

2:03 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Yohaun,
I find it funny that you say, "If you weren't there, stop commenting on it with judgement." You then go on to say, "It was a couple of men beating up a woman." How can you make that judgement if you weren't there. Secondly, one of the police officers was a woman so you are wrong on that one as well. I hope and pray that there is some kind of video of the actual incident that will exonerate the officers. I have had the misfortune of having to deal with Ms. Swilley's pot stirring antics outside of this school incident so the fact that this has happened doesn't really shock me.

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Jeff

7:53 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Thanks, SD. I was wondering if anybody else noticed that. I think he was trying to "intimidate" other people on this forum by saying that he is 6'4" and has an intimidating figure, etc... He's not the only big man on campus...

Volunteer

5:27 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Mary. I DO know the full story as I was standing right there during the entire incident and watched it in its entirety. I also HELD Ms. Gordon's 2 YO child AFTER she abandoned him inside the shcool to follow her friend KICKING AND SCREAM "Call the media!" ALL THE WAY DOWN THE HALL- CLAWING AT THE POLICE OFFICERS, WHO WERE INJURED BY MRS. SWILLEY. I, personally watched the 2yo boy in the lobby while Mrs. Gordon had no care in the world where her child was for over 30 minutes. When she DID finally return to the building, she was not concerned that her son had been crying thinking the police were taking her to jail. She just leisurely strolled in (not "terified" as she stated to the media) laughing and joking with another parent as if she didn't even remember that she had a 2 yo son. She never said "Thank you" for caring for her child... Never expressed relief that someone took care of her child... She was only smiling from ear to ear with a sense of accomplishment. Why on earth would they be standing on the OPPOSITE side of the GYM from where their (the three of them) kids class was WITH cameras in hand ready to spring into action and take pictures? And then have Fox 5, Channel 2, and Channel 46 on speed dial on her phone?? I watched her call the media as she walked out the door! She said, "Dont' worry, I'm already on it!" It all looked just a little too staged to me, and I'm not the only one that feels that way.

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Jeff

7:54 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Say, is Mrs. Gordon''s first name "MARY" by chance?

Volunteer

5:39 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Mrs. Swilley refuses to sign in at the front desk. This is a BASIC policy at EVERY school. With or WITHOUT a trespass warning in effect she could have been arrested. All parents are encouraged to volunteer at Starling. Mrs. Ledford has NEVER disallowed parents from volunteering. I am sorry that you had a bad experience, Mary. My kids have attended Starling since the day that it opened and I have never felt unwelcomed there. In fact, we could use more volunteers and are always looking for more help. Parents have to follow the rules though, and when you don't agree there is an adult way to go about getting things changed in an adult manner. Bashing the administration is just not an effective way to get what you want. Maybe one day you will figure that out. It is my belief that that every teacher and administrator had the best interest of EVERY student at heart within the walls of Starling. I don't know what you have to gain from trash talking our school, but if you are no longer affiliated... MOVE ON!! Mrs. Swilley had a chance to leave. No one beat her up. She fell into a door because she made a choise NOT to cooperate with police. It was NOT two men. It was a man and a woman. SHE is the one that was out of line and I think you will eventually see that when the official video is released. Then there will be no questions or room for discussion.

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Curious

7:19 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Volunteer...why are you now bashing Ms. Gordon?! Also, since you know so much..can you elaborate on/provide details on what Mary has stated about Ms. Ledford being transferred between 5 schools in a 10 year period? That just does not sound right.

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Lee

8:31 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

FYI- Ms. Gordon is the woman on the news who was crying that her friend was being arrested and touting the praises of Swilley. She was quite prepared to capture the seen on video and was more than happy to share the pictures and video to the news sources who were quite conveniently "at the ready" to report.

I don't know the hows and whys of the transfers, but it seems that Ledford has been the assistant principal at a couple of schools.f Most of the time, you are transferred when you become principal and naturally when you are chosen to open a new school.

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Concerned

8:07 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Donna Ledford was given the HONOR of opening a Gwinnett school. Opening a school is only for the best of Gwinnett's principals who are willing to take on this very difficult endeavor. Donna Ledford has not been "transferred" she's been PROMOTED throughout her career to 5 different positions in Gwinnett from teacher to principal.

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momof3atStarling

11:08 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

I don't think she's "bashing" Ms.Gordon. I think she's just pointing out that there were two parents obviously more concerned with this "incident" that looked a little "planned" to more than a few people. Especially in lieu of the fact that we now KNOW that Channel 46 was AT HER HOUSE last week already talking to her about "issues" she had with the school. Mrs. Gordon has her own issues with the school, and it was surprising to say the least that someone would leave their two year-old child alone inside the building in the hall to follow a grown adult acting in this manner so that she could film it. It's just perplexing. And then to re-enter the building and not be "looking" for her child was even more confusing. That's not bashing, it's concerning from my point of view.

House Wife

8:36 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

Did you see this loving mom at the last board meeting? She had her little girl read an ugly letter about her principal to the board members in a room with several hundreds in attendance. What kind of mom would do that? The kind of mom who would knowingly go to the school and refuse to leave, refuse to do what the police told her and then prance around for HOURS with dried blood on her face for all to see. I hope DFAC was watching.

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momof3atStarling

11:10 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

I did not see it, but I did unfotunately hear about it. I feel sad for her kids. They are sweet, well-adjusted and very, very smart! Both D & D are well-like by their peers. My heart broke when I saw this child on the news. I can not imagine putting my child in that situation. EVER.

Lee

8:48 pm on Thursday, May 26, 2011

I know for an absolute fact that a CBS news truck was at her house last Thursday. I don't know exactly why it was there but it seems rather odd to have CBS News at your house and then the very next week this incident occurs. Who's first on the scene? Yep, CBS news. Interesting.

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Pete

5:16 am on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary....obviously you don't know how the system works. Mrs. Ledford was promoted during those 10 years from teacher, assistant principal, to principal. It is also quite an accomplishment for any principal to be given the honor of opening a new school. It is quite obvious the board of education has great faith in her abilities to lead a school. Also, the job of the school is to teach these children. It is not their job to appease the parent's need to be with their child 24/7. While parents are greatly encouraged to volunteer at all GCPS schools they need to follow the rules for the safety of all the children.

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House Wife

9:54 am on Friday, May 27, 2011

Thank you Lee, that would be just what the Swilley's want. No matter how much a parent disagrees with their child's teacher, principal or school you don't act this way. I wouldn't even allow my children to watch this type of behavior as a TV show. Adults handle issues as adults. What type of example is she setting for her children and the other children at that school? If I were a parent there I would demand that she not be allowed on campus so my children won't be exposed to bad adult behavior.

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SD

10:49 am on Friday, May 27, 2011

Barbara,
As far as I'm concerned, your comments show that you are no better than Ms. Swilley and possibly even worse.
The more of a racial issue this becomes, the more Swilley wins.

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Proud Starling Parent

11:09 am on Friday, May 27, 2011

What about the right of all the children to have a safe, drama free environment in which to learn? Administrators jobs are to provide this for all of our children. Mrs. Ledford is doing this. She is willing to stand up to these parent bullys to do what is right for our children. For that, I am very thankful. I, like many others who have commented, have a child in the school, soon to be two there - I am VERY happy with the education my child recieves and the lessons that are being taught there - respect for others, respect for self and the importance of a good education. Let's let our children learn in a safe and productive environment. THANK YOU MRS LEDFORD AND STARLING STAFF FOR DOING WHAT IS RIGHT FOR OUR KIDS.

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SD

1:54 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary,
Thank you for this job history on Ms. Ledford. Wow! I think this is a very impressive resume and I'm quite thankful to have someone of her caliber at my child's school. Now I can clearly see why she got the honor of being the principal at a brand new school in a nice part of Gwinnett County.

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lisa

2:19 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Ok I'm an outsider i.e. I have no children who attend this school and I am a black woman. I've read the newspaper about what happened and I believe she resisted arrest. The picture looks horrible but I beleive she brought it on herself. When police officers ask you to do something; DO IT! Officers are trained to be ready for the unexpected; not to mention she has been warned many times. "This woman was severely beaten just to get her off property. It doesn't take that much force to bring down anyone with proper training." She RESISTED arrest; PERIOD!

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Raven Nichols

3:07 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Lisa, I wish Patch had a "like" button like Facebook. You're absolutely right. And didn't Volunteer, who was an eye witness, say that Ms. Swilley fell into a door? That's how she sustained her injuries. She was not, as Mary stated, "Beat down."

Also, Mary? The criminal trespass warrant came from the school district, not Ms. Ledford. And she was not "illegally arrested." Ms. Swilley knew that, given the trespass warrant, she was doing something illegal when she entered the school grounds. She did it anyway. Any one of us would have been given the same treatment if we had blatantly ignored the law and then resisted arrest. You're turning this into a personal attack on the school principal, and that's uncool. You keep mentioning the full story (with all those superfluous exclamation points) that will knock our socks off. Why don't you share it with the rest of us? If it's going to clear all this up, why are you holding back?

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Mary

11:35 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Lisa, your story is here say and not true. She did not Resist arrest and 2 cops dropped her to the grown. So Lisa, you got the story for the AJC, who got their story from Donna Ledford, who is a dirty Principal. Fact!! Raven, Are you 100% sure a warrant was issued? You guys are all basing this off pure here say, not facts... LOL!! And the world is perfect!! Can't wait to the real story comes out.. You American's are to funny, convicting people before a trail, and without the facts... WOW!
I'm out! Off to the Beach!!! The AJC... LOL
LIKE!!

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Volunteer

9:18 pm on Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Just want to let Mary know that Mrs. Swilley was found guilty today on all four counts.

Rocking Room Mom

2:34 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Has anyone asked about issues at other school's. Everyone is so quick to questions Ms. Ledford's back ground but why don't they research Ms. Swilley's. Mary, has there ever been any problems at Pharr? Is there any on going issues at Couch MS or Grayson High School? When it was reported that there are currently 2 Trespassing Warnings for Ms Swilley, are they referring to another school. Ouch!!!!!!!!

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Mary

3:47 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

When you cross a dirty Principal, you’re made out to be the bad person... Really, I moved to this area like most people so that my kids could be in a good school, not to be bullied by a principal… This lady will get’s in your face; it’s only a matter of time before that’s on the 5 o’clock news..

Raven, you can sign up for the fb recommend button, which is listed above..
Raven, did you see the criminal trespass warrant that came from the school district? This is here say. Your statement is outrageous, and yes she was beat down by the cops, I'm sure had it not been recorded she would be dead, as she was indeed beat down!! We do not live in a perfect world, as you have dirty cops and dirty principals. I will keep you posted on the True full story, it will clear up everything when the time is right..

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Raven Nichols

5:49 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary- I'm quite familiar with how both Patch and Facebook work. I was referring to Facebook's "like" option under comments- I liked what Lisa had to say.

Several people here have asked you to clarify on this mysterious wealth of information about Principal Ledford you keep insisting you have. So far, it seems the only thing you can provide for us is her employment record with the school system (which seems pretty impressive to me) and your claims that she bullied you and Ms. Swilley, which is hearsay (and that's the proper spelling of the word, by the way).

You've spent a lot of time on this post making inflammatory remarks with no evidence to back it up, aside from the "true full story" you keep alluding to.

I'd like to thank the people who commented here in a reasonable, civil way. That's what this comment section is all about. This is the last you'll hear from me on this topic, because I don't care to read any more negative personal attacks and senseless speculation.

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momof3atStarling

11:21 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Starling is NOT the only school Mrs. Swilley has issue with. So don't make this about our principal. It's about a non-compliant parent. I am proud that my School District took action to support the administration to insure that my kids have a safe place to go to school each day. I DO NOT want my kids (OR YOURS MARY) to observe Mrs. Swilley's impetuous behavior or her blatent disregard for other adults and authority.

SD

4:00 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary,
There is not one single news source or eyewitness reporting that she was beat down. All she has is a cut lip that probably happened when she was forcibly getting handcuffed due to her physical resistance. She is not seriously injured at all. Her lip started bleeding so it looks far worse than it is. I'm sure Ms. Swilley as a big smile on her face now, just hoping that this story can get turned into a police brutality case so she can get a big fat settlement. It's not likely to happen, but I'm sure that's what she wants.

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Rocking Room Mom

4:21 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary,
Again will you answer the questions if she has had any other problems at any other schools. For that matter have you had any issues at other schools? It would be interesting to know. As far as the blood on her face I thought someone offered her a towel to wipe the blood off. It really is a shame that she could not find a wash cloth to clean her self up before her evening news performance. How many hours later.
But Mary please respond about any other issues at other schools, lunchroom issues, sports club, neighborhood issues.

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momof3atStarling

11:26 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Oh yes. That would interesting to know... Sports Clubs? Marching Band? Prior Elementary Schools? HOA's?
Let's call the Middle school and the HS? I wonder if she's allowed on their campus?

SD

4:37 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

I actually was at Starling in the very place this incident took place and I never noticed anything happening. I was on the opposite side of the gym but if there was a beat down taking place, I dare say I would have noticed. Supposedly, "dozens" of kids witnessed the event per some news outlets. You make it sound like Ms. Ledford ordered her into a secret chamber and had her beaten mercilessly. Ms. Ledford had nothing to do with the physical arrest.

And no, I've never hit a woman in my life.

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Starling Dad

5:15 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

I have a child at Starling. It's a great school, with a great staff. Mrs. Swilley said on tv that she was beginning to think that she didn't live in a Democracy anymore...We never have...this is a Republic that is ruled by laws/rules, and not the public majority (mob rule), which is what a Democray is. I'm glad Starling isn't a Free Range School. As for Mary's comments, some credibility was lost when the race card was played. The main thing to keep in mind....It's about the kids and their safety. Not about a parent not getting her way.

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Mary

5:54 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Democracy, Republican, Liberal Black, white, My God!! Give me a break!! The fact that you people think it's okay for a women to get beat down and to make rude comments about what happen is sad!! She should of wiped her face before she appeared on TV... LOL THAT'S JUST SICK! I guess she ask to be beat down... I do agree that all kids should go to school in a Bully Free Environment, and that was not the case with me and my kids at Starling... She bullied me and my kids!! She's a BULLY.. Regardless to your color, parent's should always be involved in a child's educations..

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Perry Parks

5:21 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Folks,

I'm intervening a little late in this discussion, but I'd like to encourage everyone to tone it down a little. There are obviously a lot of impassioned people involved in this discussion -- some personally involved -- and Patch encourages passionate debate. But we discourage personal attacks, insults, name calling, unverified accusations, etc. I have deleted some of the more inflammatory comments; many others here are borderline. Please review our Terms of Use -- http://lawrenceville-ga.patch.com/terms -- and try to work through this civilly. Thanks.

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Mary

5:59 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

I agree Perry Parks, this is a bit out of control, please accept my Apology! I love Patch.com, and you made the first page of Google...
Regards!!

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Jeff

11:25 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

That's really funny, Mary, because the majority of the posts that he has deleted are YOURS!!! LOL!

Rocking Room Mom

10:03 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Mary,

I never said that she had a current student at Grayson High School. I was wondering if there have ever been any issues at any other schools. Have you ever had any issues at other schools? It seems that you were so quick to check Ms. Ledford's back ground but you have not mentioned if Ms. Swilley has had any problems or issues with any other schools or is this just with Starling. Most of the county schools go by the same rules. Were there any problems at Pharr? Is there any issues at Couch, with the lunchroom at the school, sports clubs, neighborhood issues? I really would like to know if Starling is where her issues are at. Why would the county say that there are 2 Trespass warnings against her if this is not true? Pleeeease answer the questions, has she had issues at other schools?

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Mary

10:54 pm on Friday, May 27, 2011

Rocking Room Mom,
No, Mrs. Swilley did not have any "issues" with Pharr nor Couch, only Starling... Not sure at this time why the county would have 2 Trespass warnings listed (if any)... Also I do know that Mrs. Ledford has had several complaints from all of the schools she has worked with in the past and current, (from every background). I myself have been bullied by Mrs. Ledford. Also, all of the county's should have the same rules but they don't, They also should have the same curriculum, but they don't..

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momof3atStarling

11:29 am on Saturday, May 28, 2011

"FAT" check Mary- Do you need the phone number to these schools? Ms. Swilley has a very long history.

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Rocking Room Mom

11:16 pm on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Mary,
As long as parents follow the rules like
1. check in at the front desk (EVERY SCHOOL IN GWINNETT COUNTY)
2. show id when checking students out (EVERY SCHOOL IN GWINNETT COUNTY)
3. pay for lost text books (my child has done this and it drives me insane)
4. pay for field trips as a chaperone instead of getting to the place and sneaking in free or trying to
make the employees that work at the place of the field trip think you have already paid (this is not a county rule just an ethical Christian thing to do.)
5. taking care of lunchroom issues

Just imagine what kind of mess a school would be in if every parent did all of these things. There are a lot of students at Starling that are on the Honor Roll, my kid just got an award for having "A's" all year but we still follow the rules. They are not different for us just because my student is smart. And guess what I am married, tax payer and a Christian. Oh and I wonder why Ms. Swilley does not have a student at Grayson High School, must have switched schools. Why is that?

And Mary have you had any issues with any schools in the past? I thought that there was a parent at another local elementary school a few years back that tried a similar stunt with the media.

Ameenah Patterson

12:31 pm on Saturday, May 28, 2011

Please let's not place judgement and we don't have all the true facts! A school whether it is in the county or city if it is a public school they should be all functioning under the same policies and procedures.

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Mary

1:33 am on Sunday, May 29, 2011

Yes, it is funny Jeff, since I deleted my post.. lol funny... And who deleted your very rude post!

If you are a parent who has received a criminal trespass warning from a Gwinnett County Public School or had an arrest warrant issued by the School Resource Officer (SRO), please contact Gwinnett STOPP ASAP at info@GwinnettSTOPP.org

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Mary

1:40 am on Sunday, May 29, 2011

No Rocking Mom, it wasn't me, was it you? You guys are full of here say..

The link to the truth,, Stay tuned!!
http://bullyingwithinthepublicschools.blogspot.com/

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Rocking Room Mom

8:50 am on Sunday, May 29, 2011

Mary,
Really? You have pulled a child out of school, this you stated in a previous post. So no not me. As a matter of fact my children attend their respective schools for their age and district. And I am also permitted to visit my childs schools. I follow the rules and sign in, show id, pay for lost text books, leave coaches alone, pay for lunches that my child eats and we also do not try to sneak in on field trips. You did not respond to any of this. Did you ask Ms. Swilley about these baseic rules, do you follow these rules? We all have seen Ms. Swilley's address from her Mug Shot picture. Do all of her children attend the schools they should?
Grayson High School - you said she has none that attend there, but doesnt she have one that is in high school age?

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Jeff

11:20 am on Sunday, May 29, 2011

@MARY Don't really care that Parks deleted my post, sounds like YOU read it and that's all I care because it was addressed to YOU.

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Jeff

11:23 am on Sunday, May 29, 2011

LISTEN FOLKS- You're all wasting your time responding to MARY's posts. You can rebut her a million times and she just won't get it! Or, perhaps she does get it, but chooses not to ignore you. Let's move on to something worthwhile...BTW, MARY, the word is HEARSAY, not HERE SAY.

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Volunteer

9:15 pm on Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Just want to let Mary know that Mrs. Swilley was found Guilty on ALL 4 counts today. Sentencing will be tomorrow. Fact check that.

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Graysonmom

5:42 pm on Thursday, October 11, 2012

Sentenced to ten days in jail, mandatory psychological evaluation, anger management classes, and lifetime ban from Starling campus. I guess the truth came out at the trial! Funny, no media there to cover the guilty sentence!

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Mary

11:54 pm on Thursday, October 18, 2012

Hold your confederate flag Grayson mom, the media is about POP OFF!!

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Mary

12:06 am on Friday, October 19, 2012

Does everyone know that Mrs. Ledfords hubbie is 5 O and he's sits in the room with the Judges? I've been to the courts with Mrs. Swilley and the Judge "would not" give her the time nor the day. "Sadly" what kind of person would not allow a parent to visit their child in school... A sick puppy, a control freak! that's for sure!! If you think it's more to this story then the G C media is given you.. Trust ME!! It's a lot more...

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Mary

12:56 am on Friday, October 19, 2012

GEORGIA ELEMENTARY SCHOOL RANKINGS
#299
Starling Elementary Ranked 299!!! " Gwinnett " County

http://www.schooldigger.com/go/GA/schoolrank.aspx

#2
BIG CREEK ELEMENTARY SCHOOL FORSYTH COUNTY

GEORGIA SCHOOL DISTRICT RANKINGS

http://www.schooldigger.com/go/GA/districtrank.aspx




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Mary

12:39 am on Saturday, October 20, 2012

Patricia Swilley was found guilty because the district attorney took her case to trial when she had no attorney to represent her. She did get an attorney but he had less than 24 hours to prepare for the case. It's easy to win a criminal case when your opponent is not prepared. However, the case law shows that Gwinnett County Schools violated Ms. Swilley's 14th Amendment constitutional rights by banning her from her child's school without any form of due process hearing to challenge Donna Ledford's absurd allegations -- going to the Georgia Aquarium, allegedly talking to other parents in the parking lot about PTA elections, asking cafeteria staff about the proper food portions. Another school district tried this tactic, and you should see how it ended --- the Washington ACLU puts it best.

Click for the full story:

http://bullyingwithinthepublicschools.blogspot.com/

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